Sometimes our aspirations for our children don’t match with what they have in mind. This blog captures a small boy questioning his mother, who wants to send her kids to the west for further education:
“Mamma, what will Santa Claus give me this year?”
“Ask for something not expensive, my dear.”
“What does ‘Expuhseev’ mean my dear mum?”
“When we have to give away a lot of money to buy something!” sighed the mum with a glum
“Is that not good, mamma? But it makes me glad.”
“If we had been in the West, we could have had
Saved the money we spend on your school and college fees
And not bothered about the medical expenses, which sting us like a million bees
So we try and save every money that could possibly be an unnecessary expense
To control the urge to overspend, we build in our minds an imaginary fence
That controls us and help us save
For your careers and a bright future, a path it helps us pave.”
“But mamma, why is it not north, south or east, why only the West?
Is it because the sun sets in the west? Does that necessarily make it the best?
Is it because they have more daylight that works in their favor?
If we go there will it makes us stronger, intelligent and braver?”
“No honey, my child you will become what you want to become, no matter where you go
The West has good education to offer, and opportunities much much more
When you earn in dollar or the Euro or the pound
And convert it into our currency, the difference will be found
You will see with the same effort you can earn 70 times or more
For a medical expense here, you would be paying many times more.”
“I know mamma, you are making a difficult choice
In trying to plan a future for us, both your boys
So I will not ask you to buy anymore toys
I promise not to make any more of a noise
Santa is rich and powerful too,
He can easily in our problem, see us through
Maybe I can ask him to buy something small this time and even in the years to come
And with the remaining money, make the education and medical expenses less of a headache for some
I want to hold your wrinkling hands when you grow old just like grandma did
And scold you to take your medicines if you gave them a skip
Just like Papa, I want to do a 9 to 5 job
And come back home every day to watch my favorite Sponge Bob.”